You can understand yourself by analyzing your:
1. Psychological Needs - What are your psychological needs? Have you felt alone that you wanted someone to LOVE you? Perhaps you wanted ATTENTION from the people around you? The CARE from your parents? The COMFORT from your dear friends? The BELONGINGNESS in the group or family? This are the psychological needs every person in these world can't escaped off. We are rational people prone to feel positive and negative depending on the stimulus of the environment.
2. Weaknesses & Strength - All of us have weaknesses and strength. Our character is not perfect. We have to admit that we have good and bad habits. We have the so called " pattern of behavior". We also have the "Blind-spot", meaning people know something about us that we're not even aware of. We also have the "Facade", meaning we ourselves know something about ourselves but other people don't know about it. To know more about our blind-spot we must ask questions and comments to those people whom we trust and know us so much. But we must be prepared and open to accept negative comments.
3. Motives - in everything you do always consider what's your motive of doing such thing. I just hope your doing it in line with your principles. People may do a lot of favor from you without knowing their deep motives. we could end up dysfunctional if our motives are evil. The best way to truly identify our motives is to be a principle centered person. We may help this person because our motive is all about care. We may lead a group and end up being criticized but we know within yourself its all about excellence and responsibility. We may look different from other people's perspective but we know within ourselves its all about being creative. We may sound so very ambitious but we know its all about conceptualizing our vision. Again please review our motives in dealing with circumstances everyday.
4. Goals - In every walks of life people have goals. This maybe a long term or short term goal. You will understand yourself fully by just merely asking yourself what is my ultimate goal. From there you will begin to analyzed if what you are doing in the present is congruent with your goal. We maybe so busy doing our day to day routine but if we were ask, is this really the things we are doing to prepare for our future? 50% of the population is doing the rat race, 40% are assuming that other people will determined their purpose and only 10% is indeed has the clarity to pursue their dreams. Where do you belong among this population?
Given this four determinants above, have you really understand yourself fully?? Think about it. It's not yet time for us to stop. It's time for us to discover ourselves and live to its full potentials! :)
1. Psychological Needs - What are your psychological needs? Have you felt alone that you wanted someone to LOVE you? Perhaps you wanted ATTENTION from the people around you? The CARE from your parents? The COMFORT from your dear friends? The BELONGINGNESS in the group or family? This are the psychological needs every person in these world can't escaped off. We are rational people prone to feel positive and negative depending on the stimulus of the environment.
2. Weaknesses & Strength - All of us have weaknesses and strength. Our character is not perfect. We have to admit that we have good and bad habits. We have the so called " pattern of behavior". We also have the "Blind-spot", meaning people know something about us that we're not even aware of. We also have the "Facade", meaning we ourselves know something about ourselves but other people don't know about it. To know more about our blind-spot we must ask questions and comments to those people whom we trust and know us so much. But we must be prepared and open to accept negative comments.
3. Motives - in everything you do always consider what's your motive of doing such thing. I just hope your doing it in line with your principles. People may do a lot of favor from you without knowing their deep motives. we could end up dysfunctional if our motives are evil. The best way to truly identify our motives is to be a principle centered person. We may help this person because our motive is all about care. We may lead a group and end up being criticized but we know within yourself its all about excellence and responsibility. We may look different from other people's perspective but we know within ourselves its all about being creative. We may sound so very ambitious but we know its all about conceptualizing our vision. Again please review our motives in dealing with circumstances everyday.
4. Goals - In every walks of life people have goals. This maybe a long term or short term goal. You will understand yourself fully by just merely asking yourself what is my ultimate goal. From there you will begin to analyzed if what you are doing in the present is congruent with your goal. We maybe so busy doing our day to day routine but if we were ask, is this really the things we are doing to prepare for our future? 50% of the population is doing the rat race, 40% are assuming that other people will determined their purpose and only 10% is indeed has the clarity to pursue their dreams. Where do you belong among this population?
Given this four determinants above, have you really understand yourself fully?? Think about it. It's not yet time for us to stop. It's time for us to discover ourselves and live to its full potentials! :)
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