How to influence other people?

I - Integrity; be honest with yourself and to other people.

N - Nurture; care enough to the people.

F - Faith; believed in other people. don't focus to much with yourself..

L - listen; Its great to listen to other's point of view.

U - understand; we can only give what we have.. try to find deep understanding about yourself. know who you are and you will understand others.

E - Enlarging; Make people grow.. motivate them.. 

N - Navigating; Its normal that when we navigate from point A to B someone will be left behind.. Help them cross the finished line..

C - Connecting; There 4 ways to connect. 1. know somebody's aspiration, ambition and interest. 2. Give value to yourself by continuous learning. 3. Know what other people values in life.. 4. know what God value and apply.

E - Empowerment; Give people the chance to feel empowered by you.. give them confidence to handle themselves...

How to replace worry and failure with happiness and success?

There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge. The starting point of all achievement is desire. Remember, WORRY is nothing more or less than thinking about what you don't want to happen ( negative imagination ). Decide what you desire, then direct all your thinking towards its realization ( positive imagination ). To replace WORRY with HAPPINESS, you have only to change your thoughts to what you want to happen... that's POSSIBILITY THINKING. imagine the pleasant, successful and joyful results you desire, and you will be guaranteed HAPPINESS today, and SUCCESS tomorrow!

God-bless us all and Merry Christmas in advanced! :)

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