Attitude? How did it molds?

1. Childhood Formative - Our attitude basically form since we are a child. Either negative or positive, our attitude greatly influence by the people around us as we grow up. Our parents are the greatest factor to consider. Thus, whatever environment, culture and structure we have in the past that mold us now in our present time, it is really a significant point to consider. Sometimes we became so comfortable of the attitude we express towards other people. Either positive or negative, neither its correct or wrong.

2. Attitude's growth never stop - as long as we are kicking and living in this world, we cannot but accept the truth that life is a constant change. A change for better or worst. It really depends on us. On how we interpret the things that happened in our life. Yet, the more we dwell on the positive attitudes the more we become positive and vice versa. Quote to remember? " Embrace the attitude of gratitude". Reality check, can we predict our future? How long are we going to live? certainly not! So why focus on the negative things when life has no guarantee? The possible effects of being too negative are the following - Stress, Burn out,lousy disposition, insecurities and even death! Therefore, if our attitude never stop growing please choose to become more positive.

3. The more our attitude grows on the same foundation, the more stronger it becomes - This is very true! but the question to ponder is, are we developing our attitude towards our purpose? our personal vision?? you maybe reading this right now and perhaps reflect on what i wrote in here.. Many people are doing the rat race
meaning living life with out purpose, vision or direction. and ended up like a walking dead man  searching for something. I was able to formulate this powerful acronym while reading about personal growth books. It is what i called PLAY. in order for us to PLAY the game of life we need to follow this concrete steps. P - Purpose, without purpose there is no clarity. L - Learn something in connection with your purpose. it could be in a form of reading, listening or watching videos as long as it is in view of your purpose. A - Apply what you've learn. It is through applying that we could gain strength.Finally, the question to ponder is when you already identify your Purpose, Learn from it and Apply, are you going to continue what you love to do?? if the answer is Yes then that's the Y we are seeking to complete the acronym PLAY. Now you are PLAYing the game of life. Attitude grows on the thing we love to do.

4. Many builders construct our attitude at certain time and place - We need to go the doctor if we are sick, Architect to plan our house, Engineer to design something more complex. If we want to construct our attitude who will help us?? the answer?? Jesus Christ.. There is no person in this world full of values but Jesus. Yes, there are people who could help us like those Life coaches but my advice? Read the Bible and learn to know Jesus. It may sound silly but i tell you its worth it. But, if you are not inclined to religion perhaps this people might consider to be your mentor. Anthony Robbins, Stephen Covey,Les Brown, Napoleon Hill, John Maxwell, etc. Living with a mentor is like standing on the shoulders of giant where you can see the things beyond your perspective.

5. There is no such thing as perfect attitude, flawless attitude - Again as human as we are, we are bound to make mistakes. We could learn and unlearn our attitudes. Learn positive attitudes and unlearned those negative attitudes that will harm us. The best thing to do is to value differences. According to Stephen Covey,
if we are not utilizing or maximizing our level of awareness then its impossible to value the differences of other people. We need to be principle centered person if we want to have change in our attitude. If we do this our source of security also lies in the principles we developed. I believe there is no shortcut in attaining one's positive attitude but it needs openness and investment to gain strength.

God bless us all! Good Day! :)

 boylatagaw